Being Jane Doe has been my secret for over 50 years. Take a moment to digest that. Just that sentence holds so much. What does any secret do to your body, your mind, your soul, your heart? How difficult is it to keep a secret? How lonely is it? How devastating is it? Now let's move past that first sentence and go deeper. Some of us Jane Does have never fully healed. Honestly, after having lived with this so long, I often wonder if it's even possible. I've done all the therapy

I recently hit a point in my life where I began seeing things as they really are. After years of hardship, I feel like I began to see things more clearly. I saw patterns I'd never seen before. I saw some ugly truths I'd been trying to avoid. I saw what I was no longer willing to put up with. If you haven't gotten to this point in your life, I encourage you to step back and really examine relationships, patterns, and seek truth. It's a good thing to look at your own actions an